Thursday, November 4, 2010

Taking off~~

Boring~~ watching Bloody Monday..

Suppose to be going to airport around 4+, then fly to KLIA, and take off to Japan at 11.40pm. XD

Yea, JAPAN!! 8D

If you want to say show off I cant say anything else.. Alot of my friends love Japan so much thats why they're like 'woah, japan!!'

I tell you what, the currency now is 15 years most expensive... oTL
We bought Malaysia Airline and 2 weeks later Air Asia release 1k round ticket..

Now will you be joyed? >_>

Oh well, other than that, this is one of the destination for our annual backpack travel.. so yea~

Will be away from today till 15th Nov, actually will reach midnight so 16th Nov.

Mom allowed me to bring 1 cosplay so I packed Kida's wig n jacket(can wear casual too XD). Wont be doing a very accurate cosplay cause its not convenient with all our luggage lol. Dint bring his bracelet, ignore the earring(cant see one..), no chain n bag~ I only want to take 1 good photo cosplaying Kida at Ikebukuro 池袋駅 Btw Kida's from Durarara!!

As for photography stuff I packed my 550D DSLR, 18-135mm standard zoom, cleaning kit, lens hood, 2 8Gb sdhc, 1 4Gb, and 1 2Gb memory cards. 8Gb and 4Gb pendrive for photo transfer and storage, card reader, charger, battery. Not bringing my 50mm cause I dont think its neccessory and my 135mm is way good enough for travel use haha..

Cant guarantee to bring back any souvenir cause luggage so heavy scared cant carry too much stuff~ and budget is very limited.

Yea you say I bluff, go japan sure rich la etc. But the rates so high and everything in Jpn is so damn expensive man.. a bread cost RM12-25, cheapest noodle RM40 to abit nicer one cost RM60+? Now you tell me how to eat alot n shopping? T_T

Will try to do some LIVE update when i'm in Japan, just like last year trip haha. Hopefully can access Blogspot or Xanga, otherwise i'll have to update at DA(last year china block everything except DA lol)

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Jungle visit & Animangaki 2010

Prior b4 the event, I returned to my jungle college. Apparently after I left Nilai is building Tesco, just beside Giant! >_> and the hostel has security gate with cards~~ why are all these fun stuff only happened after i left.. T_T

Neways, I stay for a couple of days at my junior's room. LP on the very first day already.. jiong.. finish at 4am went back room continue till 7am. and make 33 skipped class, for TWO days. Hey if i would know she couldnt wake up i wont allow her to LP ade la..i even wake her up, but she doze back. orz

Neways, I also make it to my club meeting, got alot new members woot~ and i drag my poor victims for a very random n crap photoshoot. Mainly to test my cam haha. XB also brought along his one n play too~

Met up with my Kizu, supposingly to practise our skit for Animangaki OTP but when I saw her, she havent ready her costume, accessories, and that she just finish her exam. So I decided to cancelled our participation and just head to the event and have fun. XD

Next day morning I rushed down to Mlk, supposingly to fix my new zip on, scarf and restyle the wig. But Jerry n Sheng is busy preparing their own costume and bcoz the thing above needs his help, i went to make the necklace for Lighting. In the end, i style wig myself, handsew the scarf till 3am, and no chance to make the zip. Its like WTF i rather do all these at home and i dont even need to go down Mlk..

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So next day morning fetch Fang2, Ivy, met up with Kuro, Tania n Icecream to go Sunway. Reach at 10.30am lol so damn early. Go prepare up meanwhile keep COD with ppl till i'm finally ready at erm, 12pm? LOL

The event is superb this year, totally overwhelmed GACC already haha. With over estimate attendees, level of cosplay and crowd.

Not suppose to attend this event cause by the time i get home, i'll need to fly off 2 days later. Argue with parents just to go down. What to do, I received a msg and i just had to get down haha.

I passed my cam to SJ, thank god i pass to her if not i wont have any photos.. D= Out of boredom Kizu and I exchanged costume and its so KUSO few ppl who knows FFXIII went WTF. XD

So sad Kizu aka my lover of the day has to leave early.. I scared she gastric again and she got family summore so better dont force her la. So ended up my photoshoot with her kaboom again. T^T So I went to take my cam from SJ and shoot, then i realize i lost the mood to shoot already.

Since i'm following my frens back melaka n leave early morning back to hometown, i havta leave early. God knows after all the rush to get home, our car's tyre got punctured.. Change a spare tyre but the moment the car get outside of the Uni, it cant move anymore.. Poor Kuro have to stay with us cause they're following us back together.

Ya know what, the place we stopped by to settle the flat-tyre~ We discover whole row of cars got punctured their tyre x2! We're worried hoping its not one of the attendees cause we surely wont know its Taxi territory and we'll get flat-tyre by parking their place. While waiting the tyre to be fix, we saw the awesome Vocaloid Sandplay team walk towards us and... yea, one of the poor car belonged to them.

Thank god Lydia has another car to sent the team back first while 2 more stay with the car. I accompany Lydia to get her car. You know she wear that suit so damn nice, walking 2 blocks away in a no-light condition, seriously so dangerous. Luckily among us got 1 guy worked in car workshop b4 so he changed the tyre for the Vocaloid team and help settle the issue with them.
If only our car dint die off in front of their car, this whole team of girls +1 guy will be in troubled. Most attendees already went home and you never know what those taxi/repair guys will do to them (they havent changed out costume yet, thus look fabulous and dangerous)

and after settling this n that, got home at 11pm.. oTL dint have any dinner, only snatch a bread from Tania during tyre changing.. haiz what a bad day.

Sunday, October 24, 2010

FML x2

FML i had no luck for my 50mm FML glue gun has to explode for the 3rd time FML all of sudden they just burst their anger on me FML they had to always unsee my greatness and just keep shooting my other behavior FML FML FML

Everything they said has to be out of sincere trying to help
Everything I explain has to be rude, uneducated, selfish

What else can I do now?

I talk softly, you couldnt hear, I straight away talk louder, then I'm claim to be arguing and speaking rudely.
I sometimes just shake my head n nod, just that its easier for you to see. Then I'm also rude for not speaking in ur face.

I can have my bad time as well, just like you. I doesnt talk it out cause I used to keep it to myself. You're not the only one can be upset okay.

I dont talk in the first hour i wake up, cause i'm still blur n i dont feel like talking usually.
I'm rude for that.

Everything I must understand your situation, n its not neccessory for you to be in my shoe.
Must you be that NOOB? Morons!
You dont even know our frustration when you're not listening to what we said
You can just walk off
You can just ignore
Cause you're half deaf
And we must understand that

I cant even get happy for 2 days~ it last so shortly..
gotten back my lens, god knows how the hell the dust can be in it during the repair. N i'm so happy to receive it back after 4 weeks of delayed service.

Then when i was helping my mom to glue some spoilt thing, my glue gun has to explode again. How the fark is wrong? Is it my fault? or is it i'm not meant to use glue gun? my fren can use the same one for the past 10 years and i blow up THREE already..

Sunday, June 20, 2010

oh yes FML

Sorry guys, have not been active in blog, too many things to juggle around. But I'm still active in FB, you can actually get my life status update at FB. I'm already getting busy with my FYP aka the assignmentssss. I'm also organizing an ACG event, year 2 so it's super busy. Added in between are my TKD n Karate classes, Toastmasters, badminton, my anime club n random violin playing.


Updating blog cause really is not in a good mood, slacking away from assignment research, typing this out. XD


As my FB latest status: "Due to several reasons, it started raining by the windows. The soul is again reset back to its initial stage. What stands before me, I still dont know how to judge it. In the worst case, I'll have to let it go. Regrets? It's just part of my useless life."


Today my friend told me that I should just stop doing my martial arts n sports, should just switch to music instead. My friend said dont have the proper health or body or structure to do those sports. It's because I got so many injuries n bruises everywhere. This week alone I got bruises from 2 badminton games. 1 I hit on my left hand(Monday), the other I hit on my leg(thursday). Then on Tuesday when I'm learning to play with a long stick, my low knowledge on it makes a bruise on my hand for continuously hitting the same spot. Oh well its just to get my posture right! Then Thurs morning I having an event promotion at Uni compound where I play my Hope's boomerang n I hit it on my right hand. Both injuries on my hands hit the bone so its wound is quite bad.

Oh well, how much did he knows me? If my friend ever heard how I play my music, I bet he did tell me to just stop doing all this unnecessary stuff n just live a normal life. You know how I play my music? I dont even know how to do pauses properly, i donno how to count the beats n I play songs the way I want it to be. SO WHAT? I cant do that?

Nevermind, forgive them. Its not like its the first time it happens to me. In fact for my past 20 yrs, nobody ever support or acknowledge whatever I'm doing. N unlikely its going to be the last one anyway. I just move on my life and continue them. It's MY LIFE afterall. You know my family always look down on me, thinking whatever i'm doing has been useless and that i just cant do things right. When I manage to pass my martial art exam, I happily bring back the good news n what they said is: "oh well, its been 'changed', of course you can get it pass.", then the 2nd time I pass a much higher grade, again they said: "ah, the exam is so easy, its just like cheating up anyway". I join badminton competition:"for what you join? confirmed lose one!" I bought a violin:"10 yrs ago you stopped your piano half way n now you want to learn another thing? I assure you sure leave it there after 3 times playing it"

See how they react to me? I know I'm not special, I aint genius, I dont have a healty body, good structure to do all these sports or do it well. I'm not a perfect person or good enough to be the best among others. I'm just so ordinary that I'm only able to do the best I could. With no support and acknowledgement on my doings, I still in persue with what I like the most. Cause I know if I try my very best, I'll be able to be at least better than others, even I'm not the best, even I'm not going to be outstanding at all.

If I were to give up if somebody told me off, look me down, I'll never able to achieve anything. N I'm confirmed to be forever being looked down. I dint give up learning violin, despite the horrible way of me playing them. Hey at least now when I'm moving my fingers around, SONGS came out! Not those typical horrific ear-soaring tunes came out.

I dont mind ppl call me useless, no capability on doing things... I have a life and I can live on with it, be it with a partner or not.


Time to do research already, till next time!

Thursday, May 13, 2010

what a day

I'm sorry for being such USELESS kid.
Sorry for not being a CLEVER person.
Sorry for forgetting to lock the door.
Sorry for unable to DRIVE the car, despite having license for 3 fucking yrs.
Sorry for wasting your 21 years for raising me.
Sorry for wasting all your MONEY feeding me.

FINE, I not going to anywhere this weekend.
I'll just wear my costume and sleep throughout this saturday and sunday then.
Sorry to my friends that came all the way from the South just to attend this event.
Sorry to my hometown friends that awaits to meet up with me.

Sorry for all, I'm just very useless anyway.

PS: I have car accident so I have phobia driving, sorry I damn scared to drive now.

Sunday, May 9, 2010

Appreciate the guy beside you

Found another great story posted by another friend of mine. Read it! and hope you all will appreciate your friend beside you, especially those quietly help you around.

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有一个女孩名叫茜,在她还没有出生的时候她的爸爸就已经去世了,她和妈妈、姥姥、还有继父生活在一起,可是姥姥和继父都不喜欢她。于是,在她上高中时妈妈给她送进了一所私立学校。私立学校都是有钱人家的孩子,在这一群富家子弟中,茜显得是那样的另类,她每个月的生活费只有123.5,这些钱只够她一个月吃饭的花销,所以,她每天都等同学吃过饭后,躲在一个角落里吃馒头和咸菜。但女孩从就要强的性格让她在学习方面很突出,她每一次考试都是全年级的第一名,许多有钱人的家长都希望她能给自己的孩子补课,但是,她看不惯有钱人家孩子的样儿,所以,都被她拒绝了。

没多久,班级里一个名叫巩的男孩对茜说:“你帮我补补课吧?”茜不屑的笑笑,说:“我为什么给你补课?”巩理直气壮的说:“因为我成绩差!”这句话使茜多看了他一眼,就是这么一眼让茜觉得巩与众不同,因为巩和别的有钱人家的孩子不同,他身上总是穿着一件破旧的大衣,而且也没有贵族人的傲气,于是便答应了给他补课。每天茜都给巩补习功课,同时也增加了茜的收入。渐渐地,他们熟悉了,得知巩的生日是12月31日一年中的最后一天,而茜的生日是1月1日一年中的第一天,巩开玩笑的说:“我比你大了整整一年啊!”茜冷淡地回了一句:“仅一天而已!”这一天放学,学校门口停了一辆宝马,许多有钱人家的孩子都没有见过,那是巩的家人来接他了,茜看着巩走向了车的方向,心想:“为什么他们可以那么有钱?为什么他们就可以开宝马?”就在这时,巩回头对茜淡淡地一笑便上了车。茜回过神来想:“我为什么要羡慕他?他又没有我学习好!”日子就这样一天天的过,尽管茜每天都给巩补课功课,可巩的成绩一直也没有明显的进步,离高考的日子越来越近了,他们都顾着自己的总复习,也不再补习了。茜一心就想考上清华,因为她不想被别人看不起。考试成绩出来了,茜如愿地考上了清华大学,并且是高出全校第二名整整50分的优异成绩考入了清华大学。

由于学校还没有开学,茜想回家看一看妈妈,她们母女已经很多年没有见过面了。可她刚进家门,继父见了她就又打又骂的,妈妈把她护在身后,无奈之下茜离开了家,当她走到楼下抬头看着自己家的阳台时,她多么希望在临走前再见妈妈一眼,可等来的却是姥姥把她所有的行李丢了下来,她伤心的离开了家,又回到了北京。

茜回到北京后,准备死处找房子,正在这时她看见一个老奶奶在收拾一个库房,她走上前去问:“老奶奶,您这房子租吗?”老奶奶笑眯眯地说:“小姑娘,你想租房子吗?”茜点了点头,“那就100块钱吧!”老奶奶回答她。茜正收拾房子的时候,见到了很久不见的巩,茜不想让别人看见自己落魄的样子,生气地问:“你怎么在这儿?”巩还是和以前一样穿得随随便便的,表情怪异地说:“我来看我姑奶奶!”茜像被看穿了一样,一直沉默不说话。巩问:“听说你考上了清华,恭喜你啊!”茜也不是那种不识价的人,就说:“谢谢!那你呢?”巩不高兴地说:“我爸爸让我出国!”茜冷冷地看着他,狠狠地说:“哼!你们有钱人家的孩子就是这样!”巩又接着对茜说:“你愿不愿意帮我一个忙?”茜疑惑地问:“什么事?”巩说:“愿不愿意到我妈妈的公司做打字员?”茜立刻就生气地说:“你是在同情我吗?”巩急忙解释:“不是的,我妈妈的公司最近效益不好,许多员工都走了,现在正好缺人,你就当是帮帮我,好不好?”茜答应了,每天都去巩妈妈那上班,一个月发600元的工资,这对她来说已经很满足了。巩就要出国了,在巩走之前茜请了他吃顿饭。
巩出国了,茜依旧每天一边上课一边工作,现在每个巩月的工资已经可以达到2000元了,并且巩的妈妈怕她跑来跑去的不方便,给她配了一个笔记本电脑,在别人看来都以为她很有钱,当然了,茜没有承认,也没有否认过。

在茜的寝室有一个北京的女孩,个性比较刁蛮,但是从来不欺负茜。茜还是同以前一样的要强,受不得别人的学习比自己强,可这一次她遇到了对手。有一个叫林的男孩,每次的成绩都要比她高,茜很不服气总想超过他。在一次复习课上,茜心里想:下一次考试我一定要超过他!就在这时,老师问了一个问题并叫茜来回答,可由于茜精神没集中连问题都不知道是什么,所以,摇了摇头。老师又问:“有没有人会这道题?”……林主动地站了起来回答了这道题并受到了表扬。茜恨恨地想:你以为我不会吗?用你来告诉我?下课了,茜把林截住说:“下次考试我一定会超过你!”当时在场的同学都感到很惊讶。考试成绩出来,茜果然取得了第一名,茜在成绩单上寻找着林的名字,却发现林的每科成绩都是零分,她很生气:不愿意和我比就直接说嘛!宿舍的女孩告诉茜,林在校园的湖边等她,她愤愤地跑过去说:“你什么意思?这算什么?”林没有说话,只是把手中的卷子递给了茜,茜疑惑地问:“你怎么会有卷子?”林说:“我姑姑是教务处的……”还没等他说完茜就打断了:“你们有钱人都是这样!怪不得每次成绩都那么高!”林不慌不忙地解释:“可我从来就没有动用过这种关系,卷子我已经答完,你可以合一下分数!”茜拿卷子算了一下总分还是比她高,她很是不解……林突然抱住了她,对她说:“我喜欢你!”一个女孩被男孩抱在怀里,她所有的骄傲都没有了,于是他们开始交往了。没多久他们就发生了关系,每一次出去茜都要给林钱,因为两个人出去男人付钱总是有面子,时间久了,她每次都会给林零花钱,这在他们之间也成了很普通的事情。茜的生日就要到了,茜幻想着林会送她什么礼物,心想:给他的零花钱已经足够给我买一个项链或钻戒的了。她想想就觉得很开心!

茜生日那天,林一天都没有联系她,她以为是林故意的,为的是给她一个惊喜。这时电话响了,茜拿起电话说:“你死哪儿去了?”只听见对方惊讶地说了一声:“啊?”她问:“你是谁啊?”“我是巩!”她生气地说:“怎么是你呀?”巩淡定地说:“祝你生日快乐!”“谢谢!没有什么事先挂了!”巩说:“那好吧!再见!”巩并没有等到茜的回答,而是对方那边传来嘟嘟嘟嘟的声音……电话又响了,是林打来的,接过电话后,茜急急忙忙的跑到楼下,可是,林看起来很不开心的样子。茜心想,可能是他想给我一个惊喜吧!林问茜:“晚上可不可以不回去?陪陪我!”茜犹豫了一下还是答应了!到了酒店,茜才知道原来悲伤、痛苦的表情是不可以伪装的。林对茜讲了一段她最不想听到的故事:林原本有一个女朋友叫蕊,在一所电影学院,他希望他的女朋友和其他的女孩不一样,希望她不被世俗所感染,但当他去找蕊的时候,她却和一个有钱人走在了一起,说着贬低自己的话,可林并不甘心。上午,林用积攒下来的零用钱给蕊买了一个钻戒,结果却被蕊丢了回来。茜手中拿着那枚钻戒,看着上面刻着一个“蕊”字,这一刻,茜好恨自己,恨自己为什么要那么努力的读书?为什么要认识字?如果她不认识字,她会认为那个字是她的名字,可是,茜忍住了泪水,安慰着林说:“没事,没事的!”没多久,茜不在巩的妈妈的公司工作了,由于她所学的市场营销管理正是巩的爸爸公司所缺少的,所以,她又到巩的爸爸公司上班。眼见就要毕业了,大家就要各奔东西,茜和林也就分手了。

茜随着巩的爸爸来到了深圳发展,几年的努力茜已有了很出色的表现。经过各种关系,现在茜已经是英国总公司在中国分公司的经理。茜为自己买了房子、买了车,她只是为了证明别人有的东西自己也会有,但只是时间的问题。
巩在国外回来了,请家里人在一起吃饭也包括茜。茜看见巩还是和以前一样没有什么变化,还是那种拉里拉遢的,没有什么上进。吃过饭后,茜问:“你去哪儿?”巩回答:“白天鹅!”茜又讽刺的说:“你们有钱人总是住那种星级酒店。”巩并没有回答茜的问题,而是问她:“可不可以陪我上去?”“为什么?”巩哀求着说:“就算是求求你了,陪我上去,好不好?”茜想了想答应陪他上去,刚进屋门,巩说:“把眼睛闭上!”倒数5个数!当茜睁开眼睛的时候,在屋的角落里跳出了许多的小丑为她弹琴、唱歌。这时,巩推出一个五层的大蛋糕走到茜的面前:“生日快乐!”茜好感动,因为她已经好多年没有过生日了。巩手中拿着钻戒单膝跪在地上认真地对茜说:“嫁给我,好吗?”茜说:“给我个理由!”“我爱你!”巩回答。茜点头答应了,但她自己也不知道这样是对是错,因为她还是没有办法忘记林,但是,巩的父母对她也很不错。没多久,巩和茜结婚了。

结婚以后的茜还是同以前一样整天的忙于工作,而巩却是在家养养鱼、养养花、上上网,这让茜很看不惯,有一次茜不平地说:“为什么我整天的在外面奔波,而你却整天在家闲着没事!”巩笑嘻嘻的说:“要不我们都在家吧!反正,我爸妈挣的钱够咱俩花一辈子的了!”话音刚落,茜就生气地吼道:“为什么要花你爸妈的钱?难道我们没有能力挣吗?”巩见老婆生气了,急忙连笑带求饶的哄茜。每一次都是这样。一天,茜的QQ上有一个陌生男人加她,她隐约地感觉到那个男人是林,但她还是加了。结果真的是林,他们聊了很久,茜得知林在西北的一家公司当经理,她就觉得自己的老公太没出息了。回到家以后,茜看见鱼缸里有一只鱼腹朝上了,她就捞出来扔了。巩回来以后发现少了一条鱼,就问老婆:“我的‘二姨太’呢?”茜冷淡地说:“我看见它腹朝上就扔了。”“不是,它每天都这样休息一会儿的!”茜听了以后气急了:“你整天就知道在家呆着,就不和别人一样?”巩听了以后,没有一丝表情的问:“你说的‘别人’是他吗?”茜伸手给了巩一个大嘴巴,巩没有说一句话,把门轻轻地带上离开了家。已经两天了,巩都没有回家,茜也知道自己确实有些过分了,但又不好意思主动打电话,她忽然想到了巩的那本日记,巩一直都不让她看,这一次她可以看看了。

打开日记,第一页:
年X月X日,我们班有一个女孩她和别人不一样,每次同学吃过饭后,她都躲在角落里吃馒头、咸菜,我很想去帮帮她,可是,她好象很讨厌有钱人家的小孩,我得想一个好办法!”
“今天我让爸爸给我弄了一件破旧的大衣,我想这样就容易接近她,她也不会讨厌我了。她已经决定给我补课了,为了能和她在一起的时间久一点,我故意每次都考不好,虽然每次她都说我笨,但我还是很开心。可就是无法向爸妈交代。”
…“我的生日到了,爸爸开车来接我,我有点不高兴,因为我怕她会因此疏远我。明天是她的生日,我多希望叫她一起上车,但我知道她一定不肯,所以,我只能送给她一个无奈的微笑。上了车以后,我脱下了破旧的大衣,换了一件新衣服,爸爸还说我是不是有毛病,总爱穿这件破旧的大衣。”
“我觉得我已经喜欢上她了!”
……“爸爸妈妈知道我喜欢她了,但爸爸说只要我考上清华就同意我们在一,所以,我开始努力的学习,但是,她有那么要强,我不能超过她的分数,所以,我把每一科都少答了几道题,就这样,我比她少了整整50分,考了全校的第二名。可爸爸让我出国,如果我不同意,他会把我帮助她的真相全部告诉她,所以,我答应了!”
……
“出国前我见到了她,我邀请她到我妈妈的公司做打字员,我怕她知道我是故意帮她,所以就和妈妈商量了一下说公司效益不好。在我走之前,她说要请我吃饭,我说我吃牛肉面,她不同意,我就说我最喜欢吃牛肉面了,因为我知道即使我们两个人都吃才要3块钱,那样的话这个月她还有597块钱的零花钱。吃过饭后,她回学校了,没走多远我就吐了,因为我从来就没有吃过这么难吃的饭。”
……“太巧了!她宿舍有一个女孩是我的初中同学,我告诉过我同学不许欺负她,不然,我就不客气了!”
……“在同学的口中得知她有了男朋友,我很想问问她最近好不好?但是,我却找不到打电话的理由!”

……“今天她的生日,我终于有了一个打电话的理由,但是,听她的生意觉得很急,好象在等人,所以匆匆的就把电话挂了。同学告诉我,她今晚没有回宿舍,我好害怕,我真不敢想象会发生什么事情!我心好乱!”
……“在国外,我努力地奋斗,但是,我却不能告诉她我的成就,我怕她会因此不理我。我经过了一番打拼终于使自己的公司在中国有了分公司,而总经理就是她,我自然就放心了!我就要回国了,我却不能告诉她这些年我的努力。但是,不管她现在还有没有男朋友,我都要向她求婚。”
……“我向她求婚了,她答应了我!”
……“结婚的那天晚上,我故意把自己的手指割破,把床单染红了,尽管我和她的心里都明白她已经不是第一次了,但是,在我的心里,她永远都是那个我要珍惜的人。”
……“结婚以后,她依旧整天忙于工作,而我不能一天见不到她,所以每天只用电脑和总公司的副经理联系,尽管在她眼里我没有出息,但只要不伤害到她比什么都好。”
……“我感觉她又和他联系了,我好怕我会失去她,因为我现在真的不能没有她,我想就这样和她过一辈子。”
……“老婆,我真不想失去你,因为我真的不能没有你!”
……茜已泪流满面,身边这个男人为了帮助她是多么地用心良苦,付出了那么多!她再也不顾忌面子,给巩打了电话,说:“老公,我知道我错了,回来吧!”“给我个理由!”巩问。“我爱你!”

Monday, April 19, 2010

好男人往往找不到女朋友

Another one.. very true lor~~

好男人往往找不到女朋友
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坏男人往往脸皮厚,大胆,善于撒谎,不太受道德约束,花招诡计多,不负责任。而这些特点恰恰击中了女人的软肋。假设硬件条件相似的好男人和坏男人遇到同一个女人,坏男人的杀伤力要强出N倍。
  
首先,好男人的出手概率要小得多,因为好男人开始追求之前就要考虑负责任的问题,所以不完全中意的不会去追,条件不成熟的目前不能追,对方已有男友的不能追,未来前景不看好(例:在不同城市)的不能追,限制极多。而坏男人反正也没打算负责任,只要对方有点姿色,或是触手可得,一概先追了再说。

  第二,好男人诚实,没钱没关系就实话实说,对女方的缺点也坦诚相告,往往让女人很失望。而坏男人随便编两个故事就可以显得自己实力超群;对女人花言巧语又很容易让她们心花怒放,认为找到了知己伯乐。在这个浮躁的社会背景下,好男人多年的辛苦努力换来的成果多半还不如一个坏男人用 3分钟时间编出来的故事更能让女人心动。

  第三,好男人总想着尊重对方,不会找机会调戏非礼。而坏男人通过调笑,酒精,跳舞等方式随时刺激女人的荷尔蒙,一有机会就把对方占为己有。女人一旦被调动起来,反而很快会爱上这个男人。坏男人一次调情的效果往往超过好男人默默的多次付出。有些傻女人认为男人上了她就是爱上了她;更傻的女人认为一旦被男人上了,她就必须爱上这个男人。女人的本性中隐含着逆来顺受的基因。

  第四,好男人真心付出,把双方的感情看得很重,心态容易不平衡,为一些小事和女友争吵。而坏男人心想:反正我不过是做一场游戏,找点刺激罢了,哄哄她得了,生个什么气啊?心态更平和,反而显得成熟个性好。

  第五,坏男人的约会经验通常比好男人多的多。参照第一条,坏男人一有机会就出手,即使不成功也积累了经验,逐渐了解了女人的心理。坏男人通过大量的实战经验在约会时把这些表面工作做得很好,而好男人却懵然不知,被唰了都不明白为什么,还以为是自己实力不够。

  第六,双方发生争执时,好男人自尊心,原则性强,不会轻易迁就对方,往往为些小事谁都不让步,最后只能分手。而坏男人脸皮厚,认个错比喝稀饭都容易,往往轻而易举就能哄得对方回心转意;当然,那是在他还没有玩腻的时候,否则即使女方让步他也能找出借口分手,有时候女人反而会一再让步,彻底沦为坏男人的玩物。

  第七,好男人原则性强,循规蹈矩,往往显得乏味。而坏男人一心追求刺激,变化多端,常常给女人以新鲜感。不知不觉中,女人就被坏男人迷惑住,控制住了。

  第八,大部分女人对生活的期望值不现实(爱情小说,电影看多了的后果)。造成的后果是诚实的好男人达不到她们的期望值,只有坏男人才能编造出一个她们心目中的理想世界。

  另外,对于多数女人来说,上床造成两人关系的质变。占有她身体的男人比起其他男人有太多的优势(亲密程度大大增强,对方无形之中多出很多操纵女方身体及行为的权力等)。

  坏男人能做到的,好男人为什么做不到呢?对于好男人,你是他生命中的重要组成部分,他对你的过去,现在,未来都在意。而坏男人更能容忍你的缺点,因为他只需要容忍几天,一两个月;而好男人却要计划一辈子的前景。

  但是女人往往对好男人努力为她所做的事认为理所当然,不屑一顾,所以好男人要变坏,才会得到女孩子的青睐。。。

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很认同!我在看这篇文章的时候,心里还是很自豪的,每一条 “好男人”都被你占据。。
这个社会确实是这样的。很多女孩子把“好男人”当作“傻男人”。其实她才是真正的傻瓜。把这篇文章送给所有单纯的傻女孩子!!